Pull them aside for a private conversation, sharing your concerns. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized. My niece is sneaking out and refusing to come home, and she is rarely punished. The sooner all see that the teenagers of today create our culture and society for the next generations the better. Not sure why she "gets away with almost everything. Can I give you one piece of advice.. I'm thinking about a series for young adults that include some of these issues.